You've spent months - or years - thinking:
"I really want to make this change, why can't I?"
"I want to, but I'm not [x] enough"
"Why do I keep talking myself out of this?"
Maybe you don't need to BE more. Maybe you don't need more willpower or pressure or someone giving you advice.
Maybe you need someone to hold up a mirror to remind you of how capable you already are. Someone to help you gain momentum and cheer you on as you take those first scary steps into the change you've been putting off.
If you are my ideal client, right now you're skeptical. "How does she know I'm capable. She doesn't know me. She doesn't know how much I procrastinate or how much shame I have around [x] or how in debt I am or little education I have."
You're right. I don't.
But I hope to.
I hope we can create a space for you to tell me what it is you truly need and want to live your best life. I hope we can uncover what's really keeping you stuck, whether it be a limiting belief, a habit or pattern that no longer serves you, or an extenuating circumstance. Once we identify the barriers, we can create a realistic path forward. And through our time together, and through you setting and achieving steps towards your goals, I hope you will see evidence that you are, in fact, worthy enough, deserving enough, and capable enough, for what it is you truly want in life.
Don't settle. This is my invitation to you. We can figure out a way forward together.
About Me
I know what it's like to let your self doubt, perfectionism, or the desire to keep everyone happy stop you from making changes in your life. I got into life coaching because I noticed this pattern in a lot of women around me. And over and over again, I noticed that these women saw themselves differently than I did.
Where I saw bravery and tenacity, they saw failed attempts. Where I saw a parent doing everything she could, they saw a parent who “should” be able to do more. Where I saw someone funny and wise, they saw someone aging out of relevance. These distorted mirrors seemed to be holding women back from going for what they wanted in life - and from seeing the skills, talents, and knowledge they already had. As I was given the honor of sharing with them the version I saw, I was able to witness them take risks, attain goals, quiet the self-doubt, and shed the "shoulds" that were holding them back.
I already had a PhD in communication and had taught for almost 2 decades, so I had several tools in my tool belt; however, I decided to equip myself with specific education and tools to go from empathetic friend, co-worker or professor to legitimate life coach. My goal is to help women gain the momentum they need to start making the changes they want in their lives.
"[Alyssa] excels at asking the right questions, offering fresh perspectives, and guiding you through techniques that change how you approach challenging situations."
Julie
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"Alyssa is the only person I have ever met who I can 100% confidently say she does not judge...there has never been a moment when I felt uncomfortable talking with her.
Bianca
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